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Things I Wish I Knew Earlier in Life About People

Over the years, life has taught me a lot—often the hard way. Here’s a list of lessons I’ve learned, things I wish someone had told me sooner.

  1. Most relationships are transactional. Many people stick around only when they benefit from you. Once their need is met, they move on.

  2. Do good, but don’t expect anything back. Helping others is noble, but don’t expect them to return the favor—or even appreciate it.

  3. People change. The one you trust today might let you down tomorrow. Be cautious with your trust.

  4. Keep your plans private. Not everyone around you has good intentions. Silence protects your goals.

  5. Be thoughtful when helping. Ask yourself: Are you helping because they need it, or because you feel obligated? Would they help you if roles were reversed?

  6. True friends show up in tough times. The people who stand by you during your lows are the ones who truly care.

  7. Keep your financial status to yourself. Talking about your earnings or wealth often invites trouble.

  8. Help with time and advice, not just money. Guidance can be more valuable than handing out cash.

  9. Avoid helping people with a history of failure. Often, it’s their habits—not bad luck—that caused it. Associating with them might pull you down too.

  10. The right people make life better. Having kind, honest, and supportive people around you changes everything.

  11. You become like the people around you. Surround yourself with those who inspire you to be better.

  12. Being nice has limits. Sometimes, being too nice can make you look weak. Stand your ground when needed.

  13. Don’t share your needs with everyone. If people know what you want too much, they might use it against you.

These are personal reminders I’ve gathered over time. Maybe they’ll help someone else skip a few hard lessons.

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